You Can go Further
Darkness and Light
Learning Never Ends
Each experience helps us grow.
We can take each interaction with others and allow them each to speak to us.
Sometimes it is a quick lesson.
Sometimes it is one that needs to sit with you for a while.
Though, you can learn something from each experience and from each interaction that can help you grow more, as a soul and as a human being.
Learn and move on.
Don’t let certain experiences hinder you from doing what you know is right for you.
Learn and let go.
Each person must find their own way and explore through life at their own pace.
A grown up might be struggling to move through childhood trauma.
A child might be more mature than their parents.
We can’t expect everyone to act their age or to be at a certain maturity or healing level, just because they have lived a certain amount of years on this earth.
Learning never ends.
Growing is continuous.
Be here.
Wherever you are.
Allow yourself to have peace with where you are and know that you are doing a good job.
– M.
Carpet Piles
So many things left unsaid.
So many troubles lost without an end.
Blank stares after fights.
Lost words, from not enough strength to finish a line.
Builds up over time…
Trying to walk through that dining room with carpets full of piles…
Piles of words swept under the carpet.
Angry arguments left unfinished, just to build up over time, taking up space, draining energy and making you feel out of place.
Carpet piles…
Lost words that were left unsaid…
Feelings that get lost in your head…
Unfinished business, fights stopped short…
Never listening…
Never hearing…
It’s all so draining…
Tears so scattered like the sprayed spit from the nasty words that were yelled.
Stopping before anyone got hurt, but holding on still, enough to keep the pain inside still.
Swept under the carpet, to pull out again in time…
Never really feeling healed.
Always going on like nothing bad was ever said.
Why…
How can things ever heal in time, when they aren’t allowed to be spoken about…
Stop the avoidance.
Make a change, to make a difference.
Emotions are felt and need to be known.
Respect can be given, love can be shown.
Stop the carpet piles.
Acknowledge the hurt.
Understand the pain.
Stop the avoidance and make communication a positive thing.
– M.
Fear Experienced
It is not as easy to explore a feeling, unless it is being felt.
The pain and discomfort of fear, is one of the most taunting feelings.
Am I dying…
Will I live another year…
Have all of my past experiences caught up to me and caused a health issue that is incurable…
There are haunting thoughts that don’t make it easy to exist.
To want to live, but want to be gone, yet be fearful of a death that may or not be soon approaching…
Where is the peace, the bliss, the comfort…
A partner, maybe that would help.
Distractions, staying busy, nothing sounds right.
The only way to deal with it is to face it.
Look at it straight on, breathing in, breathing out, saying, “I will be okay. I am okay. It is okay. It will be alright. I am okay.”
There is nothing else to do.
Just wait.
Breathe.
Keep saying that I will be okay, I am okay, it is okay, it is going to be alright, it is alright.
Wait.
Experience it again.
Face it.
Breathe through it.
Don’t distract.
Don’t medicate.
Don’t numb.
Face it.
Live through it.
Sleep.
Wake up to another day.
– M.
Let Go of the Past
The Path Unknown
Podcast
What is Love…
What is Love
We seek out love, from the beginning of our entrance into this earthly life experience.
But what is love, really?
Why do we seek it out?
Why do we allow so much pain and trauma to come, and accept poor treatment, in our search for love?
There are different types of love, also, which we can get all mashed up, and we can expect a lot from others, in our seeking of love.
We tend to seek love from others to solve our problems.
We think being in love and in a relationship will fix our world (not the whole world, just our world, the one only we exists in).
So we bring someone in, hoping they will be the answer.
Hoping they will validate us, cure us, save us, but what we really need is our own love.
We seek love for protection.
Love seems to be the answer for our need for safety.
We seek it for acceptance.
We think that this love will mean we will be accepted as we are and for who we are.
This is true, but not everyone is able to accept us, nor are we always able to fully accept ourselves.
We hope that love will fulfill us and help us feel whole.
This is a false idealization of love, given to us through the media and through others who also have the false belief of this.
Love cannot make us whole, only if it is love from ourselves to ourselves.
That self-love, self-validation is pretty important and it is way more necessary than we are shown through our life experiences.
We think that love will solve all of our problems.
Well, love can solve many problems, but only the right kind of love can help with this, most specifically, self-love.
Romantic love is not going to solve many problems for us, though.
It can actually cause more harm than good, if one of the involved parties is not in a healthy place of being able to be a receptor of this type of relationship, or of one is seeking more, or has the hopes it will turn into something more permanent and fulfilling than just romance.
Loving others, seeing their truth, accepting them, being kind, loving yourself, being kind to yourself, treating others the way you would like to be treated, treating yourself as you would like others to treat you, finding ways to validate yourself, creating your own sense of safety and protection… this is the gift that love brings.
It creates a space for peace and an opening for learning how to find it, by creating it and allowing it.
We can seek love, we can give love…
Romantic love will not solve as many problems as platonic or self-love.
Self-love and self-realization is the real key to solving our problems and understanding how to exist in this world, the one where we are alone in and the one that we all share.
Find yourself and find your key to your questions of validation.
Find yourself and understand you are the one you have been seeking.
Look within and find the love you have been seeking from others.
You are a magnificent being.
You deserve love.
You deserve peace.
You deserve acceptance.
You deserve safety, protection and most of all, you deserve love.
Not just any love, a healthy love for yourself.
One that will last for your entire earthly experience and beyond.
Sending you love and good intentions for your journey.
Love you all and wish you well on this beautiful experience.
– M.
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