Sometimes we wonder why we are unhappy with ourselves.
So we look back over the years to see what’s created this.
We see our friendships and relationships, or the choices we have made.
We start looking over how some people have treated us, and how we have allowed a lot of unkindness to step over the doorstep of our soul’s experience, and right into our circle of peace.
People will show you who they are.
They will literally tell you.
Sometimes in words, but other times with their actions.
It can takes years to really see who they really were.
It can also take years to see your own self.
Learning to have more kind friendships takes a lot of self-love.
It takes determination and commitment to self.
Learning that you deserve to be around people who lift you up, rather than put you down, seems like it is common sense.
Yet, sometimes we don’t realize these people are putting us down, until we take time away from everyone so we can look back and process over it all.
Looking over what people have said to us, how we feel when we are around them, and the choices we make when we are with them, are all key signs to pay attention to.
Having been through many layers of my own healing, I am really starting to learn how I FEEL matters.
Listening to my body, to my energy, to my spirit with so many different aspects of life, is beginning to make more and more sense for so many different reasons.
Travel lightly and intuitively, so that you can allow an open mind to the intentions of others.
Ask the hard questions.
Listen to their truths.
Read between the lines of their words and the energy that comes with it.
So many are here to test you.
Trust the process of healing and unfolding.
You go where your mind goes.
There is so much more goodness waiting for you, just keep going.
Believe that you are here for a purpose and trust that your boundaries will also help guide your way to where you want to be and who you should be surrounded by.
Mirror what it is that you desire for your life.
Only you can get yourself there.
Be strong in your self-love so that others can see how you know you deserve to be treated.
Leave no room for those who want to take away your power.
There are many different times in our life when we don’t know what’s to come.
We try so hard to plan, prepare and schedule so we are certain of all that is to come.
This gives us a sense of peace and understanding of what the future holds.
Yet, this just isn’t the natural way of things.
So when things are going on and we feel this eruption of unsettled thoughts, because there are so many unknowns, we must remember that this is normal.
We cannot know what all is to come. We must trust in the unknowns and let them unfold, like blossoms in the spring time.
We must learn to hold onto a sense of peace for the unknown.
To let the unsettling mind lead the way is to have a unraveled sense of security, and we can’t depend on our security to come from always knowing everything all the time.
That is false hope.
Learn how to let go of the need to know.
Hold onto the adventurous way of expecting to never really know what’s to come.
It can be exciting, if you let it. Our judgement and perception is what we can control.
Let it be good. let it be exciting. Life should be an adventure.
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