Change Your Mind, Change Your Life

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Sometimes we have to skip meals to save money. 

Sometimes we have to sell our clothes to pay the bills. 

Sometimes some of the help runs out, but all of this leads us to a new chapter, a new challenge to overcome and a new way of thinking needs to take over. 

Things don’t happen to you, they happen for  you. 

Be strong in your self-love and listen to the guidance of your intuition. 

Everything is going to be okay. 

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  • M. 

People Pleasing

Oh it is hard.

It is so misunderstood.

This way of thinking and acting and even speaking.

Decision making, can become so much more challenging when you aren’t looking from within.

What is it that causes this?

Maybe some trouble with self-love?

Maybe it’s more of a self-trust or self-worth issue?

Currently, I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, myself, as I have recently made some decisions based around wanting to people please.

I thought I had made progress and moved away from this.

One step forward and two steps back, as the saying goes.

When we are healing and growing, we will get lessons.

We will get practices for learning how to overcome these lessons and how to understand how we can move forward on this healing journey.

We will never be perfect.

We will always be growing.

We will continue to learn and forever be learners in the classroom of life.

I, for one, am very grateful for the learning process, even if it hurts at times, or is confusing.

I know it is necessary and has long-lasting effects for bettering my life.

Hopefully you can also find some truth in that.

We are continuously learning and growing.

With everything we do.

With everything we see.

To consume information is to learn.

Yet, we also must put it into practice if we truly want real progress towards our destination on this beautiful journey of life.

Thank you for being here.

– M.

Healing Journey

Sending pictures,

Sending texts,

Looking for love,

Looking for validation.

Trying to live up to everyone else’s expectations.

Hoping for love.

Looking for acceptance.

What is this life without outside validation.

Here me out.

Here me now.

See me fully.

See me wholly.

I am lost.

I am naked.

I am broken.

I am aching.

Cure me.

Fix me.

Heal me quickly.

The pains of this torture are slowly killing me.

Let me be.

Let me grow.

The only way is for me to be alone.

Find me lost.

Find me sad.

Leave me broken,

Leave me be.

I am healing,

I am picking up the scattered pieces of what’s left of me.

-M.

Support Big Dreamers

Make Each Moment Count

Love and Relationships

Why do we think love from another will satisfy us and solve our problems?

For too long I have thought this.

Find a mate, “the one”, and all will be fixed.

Walking a way from dating was the best fixer of my many of my problems.

Instead I took time to learn to go within.

Learning to love myself.

Learning to focus on my growth and my path was the best choice for my life.

Not everyone is meant for someone.

Not everyone wants to be in a relationship or have all that comes with having a mate.

Some of us need this lifetime to heal and grow and find peace in solitude.

When you learn to look within and seek out what is truly right for you, you can stop spending your energy on what is not allowing you to truly heal.

Direct your focus.

Allow your truth to come out.

Only you know what is right and best for you.

Only you can make the choices that fit with your life and your needs.

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  • Single by choice, for my highest good. Self-care, self-growth, focused on my purpose and on my path. And Grateful for that.

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– M.

Bloom

Why settle with mediocre when you could allow yourself to blossom?

We are told to stay in line and to stay quiet.

Taught to stay small.

Follow the line of crowds, only do what you need to do.

Don’t step out of line.

Don’t talk back.

Don’t have a voice.

Ambition is for dreamers and losers who think they can be different and still succeed.

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We ARE each different.

We DO have a voice.

We SHOULD step out of line and get away from the crowds.

We MUST learn to follow our hearts and TRUST our potential.

Bellow out your hearts desires from the very depth of your soul.

Scream and shout and dance with PASSION, for you are no robot.

You are WILD and FREE!

Keep being you.

Learn to love YOU.

Grow.

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Blossom.

Bloom.

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– M.

Learn Patience

All things take a process.

Be easy on yourself.

Be easy on others.

Don’t force.

Don’t try to control.

Let go,

Let it be.

Growth and the process of all things is a practice of patience and trust.

Nothing can be forced or controlled into existence, that is expected to last or feel good.

Energy and expectations around love and peace will flourish when detachment of the outcome are allowed to be.

All things in life take time to become.

We must not push.

We must allow and trust that everything that is meant to be will be, in its own time.

Find your center and grow with love and peace for patience is within that truth.

-M .

Trust the Process

Everything you are doing is guiding you towards where you are focusing your attention.

If you have certain goals or desires, allow yourself to focus on them so you can be pulled into that direction.

Have faith that each challenge and experience is guiding you towards those desires.

It might not always feel as though you are on the right path, but as long as you are still here, living and breathing, you are still on your path.

Each experience helps you become more connected to those desires.

Each challenge chisels away more of what is not necessary and strengthens what needs to be strengthened so that you can be better suited for your desired experiences.

This existence is to allow you to grow and heal to become more aware of yourself and your purpose.

You are doing a great job.

Keep pushing.

Keep learning.

Keep trusting.

You are making moves and connecting to your deepest desires.

Trust the path that is laid out before you and understand that each new turn, each new hill, each new speed bump is here to help you move forward with greater strength.

Keep going.

You are doing excellently well, with exponential efforts.

Keep going.

You are almost there.

-M.